A woman shared her wild story on Reddit about her fiancé and his frustrating behavior. She revealed that he had been mocking her for earning more money than him and expected her to pay for him and his friends at restaurants.
The drama began when she got a 30% raise at work. “My fiancé (M37) and I have been engaged for five months. We don’t usually talk about money because that’s what he prefers. But after I got a raise, he started using it as an excuse to make me pay for him and his buddies.
Whenever I refused or asked why, he’d reply, ‘Because of the 30% raise.’ He made it seem like I didn’t deserve the raise or that it was unfair.”
She had decided that this time, she wasn’t going to foot the bill. She was tired of being tricked into paying for meals. “He has asked me in public on multiple occasions to pay for his and his friends’ lunches, deceiving me into doing so. To be honest, I’m too polite to say ‘no.’ I simply smile and pay since I detest conflict, especially in public settings like restaurants.
He invited me to supper with him and his friends last Tuesday. I informed him right away that I wouldn’t be covering their meal costs and that he shouldn’t count on it. ‘Got this,’ he said, adding ‘no worries.’”
But during dinner, her fiancé whispered again, asking her to pay. She was determined to say no. “We arrived at the eatery, ordered supper, and met his mates. He leaned in to whisper to me in the middle of the meal that I would be covering the cost of whatever he and his pals ordered.
I was so angry that I responded with a mumbled ‘noooo,’ but I think he was counting on me to keep quiet in front of his friends and the public. ‘You have enough money, remember, to pay for everyone’s food,’ he remarked.”
She was furious and decided to pay her own bill and leave. “I was furious inside. Rather than taking offense and losing my cool, I waited for the bills to arrive (which had already been divided when we placed our initial order), paid for mine, and excused myself to use the washroom.
After that, I snuck out of there, got into my car, and drove home.”
Her fiancé started calling and texting to find out where she was, and she told him the truth. “My fiancé began calling and texting me to find out where I was. I replied to his text, expressing my displeasure at how he had put me in this predicament and had essentially conned me into paying for his and his buddies’ dinner. I stopped responding after telling him I was going home.”
An hour later, he came home, and they had a big argument. “An hour later he came and started yelling at me, calling me selfish, irrational, cheapskate, and childish for sneaking out like that and leaving him stuck with a bill he could not pay (He had to call his brother for help).” They had a heated dispute, and he left.
His friends didn’t talk to her about it, but he told her they were disappointed in her actions and advised him to “reflect” on the kind of woman he wants to marry.
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3 thoughts on “Woman sneaks out from the restaurant, when her fiance demanded her to pay the restaurant bill”
Do not marry this guy
He cannot deal with your success
if i were you i run for the hills he is not worth your time fine someone that has your back
Disgusting behaviour and his friends are not worth the effort either. DO NOT MARRY HIM.