When we share details of our lives online, we open ourselves up to criticism. This is something Matt and Brittany Montgomery know well. They love sharing photos of their life together on social media, but not everyone has been kind in their responses. Some people have left harsh comments, but instead of letting it get to them, Matt and Brittany responded with humor and strength, showing how important it is to stay true to themselves.
Matt and Brittany’s story is a beautiful one, though it might seem familiar at first. They met, fell in love, and quickly started building a life together. But there’s one thing that makes them stand out: Matt is much bigger than Brittany, which has drawn attention from those who don’t understand their relationship.
Brittany has had a tough time feeling accepted all her life. Her controlling parents didn’t make her feel safe or loved, and their conversations often left her feeling empty. This led her to dislike her appearance and become very self-conscious.
As a plus-size woman, Brittany had encountered two types of men: those who were attracted to her curves and those who wanted her to lose weight. After many disappointing dating experiences, she started to think that finding true love might not be possible for her.
But fate had a different plan! In August 2020, Brittany met Matt Montgomery online. Even though their bodies were very different, their spirits connected deeply. “I was a little hesitant at first,” Brittany admitted. “In past relationships, guys threatened to break up with me if I didn’t start dieting or try to lose weight. It really affected my confidence, and I even tried working out to change my size.”
Despite her initial doubts, Brittany and Matt soon realized they were deeply in love. On January 30, 2022, Matt proposed, and they started planning their future together.
Even though they were comfortable with each other, they knew that others might not understand their relationship. “People comment on Instagram and say that I’m not big enough or man enough for her,” Matt said about the remarks on his social media posts. “I also notice people staring when we walk down the street,” he added.
But no matter how many people criticized or misunderstood their relationship, Matt and Brittany remained strong in their love for each other.
Matt had also struggled in the past with dating women of “normal” size, but with Brittany, he felt something different and real. He knew she was his soulmate because of how she made him feel. “You are worthy, you are deserving of infinite love every single day and more,” Matt recently wrote, expressing his love for Brittany without holding back. “I know we were meant to be together by the way you look at me and feel the same way I do about you.”
In a powerful response to the critics, Matt posted a picture of him and Brittany on social media, captioning it with some of the hurtful comments people have made about other couples. It was a beautiful way to show the depth of their love and to silence the doubters.
Brittany and Matt hope to make relationships between people of different sizes more accepted. “I wish mixed-weight relationships were more common and more the norm,” Brittany said, expressing her hope for the future.
Recently, the couple shared some exciting news—they’re expecting their second child, a baby girl named Lakelyn, in September 2023. We wish them all the best!
In the end, finding true love and following your heart doesn’t have to follow any rules. We should all strive to love and embrace one another, no matter what.
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