
I DIDN’T WANT A CAREGIVER—I WANTED MY OLD LIFE BACK
When the doctor told me I’d be permanently paralyzed, I didn’t cry. I didn’t scream. I just nodded, like someone had told me tomorrow’s weather: Clear skies with a chance of never walking again. I didn’t want pity. I didn’t want people trying to inspire me. I just needed time—to wrap my head around losing something so huge, something I never thought I could lose. When the hospital staff offered help—just a little assistance—I said, “No, I’ve got it.”But that was a lie. The truth hit hard. Cooking turned into