My Brother Forbade Me from Giving the Speech at Our Mom’s Funeral Because ‘No One Wants to Hear from the Adopted One’
Have you ever felt like someone tried to erase you from your own life? Like they looked you in the eye and told you the love you lived wasn’t real enough? That’s what it felt like when my brother decided I wasn’t family enough to say goodbye to the woman who raised me—our mother. The house feels so quiet now. Too quiet. I still expect to hear her soft humming from the kitchen or the sound of her slippers on the hallway tiles. The air still carries the soft scent