I Wasn’t Looking for My First Love – but When a Student Chose Me for a Holiday Interview Project, I Learned He’d Been Searching for Me for 40 Years
I’m 62, a literature teacher who’s spent almost four decades in high school classrooms. My life had a rhythm: hall duty, Shakespeare lessons, lukewarm tea, and essays piling up overnight. December was usually my favorite month—not because I expected miracles, but because even teenagers soften a little when the holidays arrive. Every year, right before winter break, I assign the same project: “Interview an older adult about their most meaningful holiday memory.” The students groan. They complain. But then they come back with stories that remind me why I chose