Three weeks after my mother died, I finally broke open the thrift‑store locket she had kept glued shut for fifteen years. I didn’t even finish reading her note before I called the police. Because whatever she hid inside that little heart suddenly felt bigger than grief. Bigger than memory. Bigger than the kind of secrets you keep just to protect yourself. My mother, Nancy, lived quietly. She never bought anything new if she could avoid it. If something still worked, she used it until it didn’t. She reused tea bags.

For most of my marriage, I told myself that silence was the price of stability. I believed that if I stayed quiet, if I didn’t push back, then my family would stay together and my children would be safe. I told myself that this was what marriage looked like, that this was normal. Then one night, a single phone call cracked that belief wide open and forced me to see my family—and myself—in a way I never had before. I was 37 years old when I finally understood how small